Cannadvice: AITA for wanting my boyfriend to pass the blunt to me instead of his girl best friend at seshes?

spoiler alert: not the fucking asshole

Hi Eevee! I love your content sm and I figured you’d be a good person to ask about this. My boyfriend and I usually go to the same seshes, but his girl best friend is always there too because she’s like a part of their friend group which is usually fine but lately he keeps passing the blunt to her instead of me. Like, I’m talking going out of his way to get up and hand it to her if she’s not even in the circle at the time. I’ve talked to my friends about how this bothers me and they keep telling me I’m being insecure and I need to either get over it or leave, but I feel like I should at least try to talk to him about it? Idk what to do.

anonymous subscriber

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Hey girlie!

First and foremost: get better friends. I’m so serious. That is an insane response on their part and you deserve so much better than that. That response is the kind of thing people say when they’re praying on your downfall.

Second, this is a really shitty and complicated situation and I feel for you so heavy. I’ve had my fair share of partners with girl-best-friends that had no regard for boundaries or our relationship, and it’s so much added stress.

The most important thing to keep in mind is that, if your boyfriend loves you and respects your relationship, having a conversation about this problem will not make the relationship implode. I don’t have a ton of context, but it sounds like you haven’t had much of an issue with their friendship until this point of contention.